Original Title: Au bain des dames

Year: 2025

Genre: Documentary, Comedy

Duration: 29min

Cast: Joëlle, Joëlle, Régine, Carmen

A Glimpse into Unfiltered Wisdom

Margaux Fournier’s "If You Don't Like It, Look Away" (Original Title: Au bain des dames) is a delightful and profoundly human exploration of life's later chapters, presented as a 29-minute documentary-comedy. Set against the sun-drenched backdrop of Bain des Dames’s beach in Marseille, the film introduces us to a captivating quartet of retired friends: Joëlle, Joëlle, Régine, and Carmen. More than just a simple gathering, their daily beach meetings evolve into an impromptu open-air theater, where the stage is sand and the script is life itself, unwritten and raw.

The Open-Air Stage of Life

What makes this short Movie particularly resonant is the sheer authenticity and unvarnished freedom with which these women engage with each other and the camera. They tackle subjects often relegated to hushed tones – love, sex, and the realities of aging bodies – not with embarrassment, but with a liberating blend of humor, experience, and a refreshing lack of pretense. Their conversations are vibrant, witty, and surprisingly profound, moving seamlessly from the mundane to the philosophical, from personal anecdotes to broader societal observations. They are, as the synopsis perfectly puts it, "remaking the world with the freedom of those who have nothing left to prove." The comedic elements arise organically from their candid exchanges and the sheer joy they find in each other's company, rather than contrived situations.

Direction and Impact

Margaux Fournier demonstrates a remarkable sensitivity in her direction, allowing the women's personalities to shine without interference. The camera acts as a fly on the wall, capturing intimate moments and expressions that speak volumes. The choice to frame their interactions like an "open-air theater" is inspired, highlighting the performative yet deeply personal nature of their daily rituals. Despite its brief runtime, the Movie manages to convey a rich tapestry of life experiences, offering a powerful commentary on female friendship, the beauty of growing old gracefully (and not so gracefully), and the enduring human spirit. It’s a testament to Fournier's vision that such a short piece feels so complete and impactful.

The Verdict

"If You Don't Like It, Look Away" is an endearing and insightful Movie that invites audiences to listen, laugh, and perhaps reconsider their own perspectives on aging. It’s a celebration of life's persistent vitality and the invaluable wisdom found in those who have lived it fully and fearlessly. While its brevity leaves you wanting more, it also ensures every moment is packed with genuine emotion and thought-provoking dialogue. This is a gem of a documentary that proves profound statements don't always require grand narratives. 

What particular aspect of the friends' candid discussions on aging and freedom resonated most with you?